What is Language mentoring®?
Language Mentoring® is my own approach to language learning. It is not my own “method” such as the Callan Method, the grammatical method, learning in the alpha state of mind etc. I don’t offer a specific package of learning materials for a specific language at a specific level. I offer a guide for creating such packages of materials, and using them the right way.
Language Mentoring® is here to help people find their own way of learning a language, persist and achieve the desired results.
Language Mentoring® is a philosophy explaining the many ways of learning languages, and helping people use them in their lives. It can be combined with any other method, be it attending courses, using textbooks, self-study books, computer language programs, working with a private teacher or a completely individual self-study.
The main aim of Language Mentoring® is to help people enrich any form of learning with additional learning based on 4 pillars of language learning:
The trick lies in doing these activities:
- Using effective methods
- Using a system that is easy to follow
- Long enough to achieve a comfortable fluency level
- In a way that is enjoyable for you
Within these basic principles of language learning, everybody is able to put together their own combination of methods and resources that suits them best. Just like a jigsaw puzzle.
I know this way of learning works not only for me, but for anyone. This is because of its golden rule: learn as suits you best. Not as a textbook or a teacher prescribes.
The heart of Language Mentoring® lies in the fact that I help everyone find their own method – their own combination of resources and ways of learning that matches their needs.
I don’t teach people languages. I teach them to learn languages effectively.
In a way, rather than catching a fish for the student, I offer them a fishing rod, so that everybody can catch a fish of their own preference, on their own.
The individual methods of language learning are very simple, such as:
The trick lies in doing these activities:
My talk from Berlin on the
topic of Language Mentoring®
In this talk, I explain the main philosophy behind language mentoring® and I describe my experiment with 100 university students which ended up better than anyone could have expected. As many teachers from several departments said, I caused a revolution at the faculty. Have a look at how I made our students learn and not wait to be taught.
What does a language mentor do?
- 1I spread the word about language learning
My greatest mission is to help people learn languages effectively so they don’t have to spend years learning at school or in language courses, never getting anywhere. Polyglots don’t speak many languages because of their special talent but because of the way they learn. And anyone can apply these natural principles.
- 2I explain specific methods for independent language learning
The participants of my courses and talks will receive a detailed guide on how to use simple and effective methods for language learning. I teach people to turn the internet into an unlimited resource of learning materials and methods, use it to their advantage and have fun on the way.
- 3I help people create their own sustainable language learning system
For instance, if you found a great bilingual book with an audio recording, I’ll tell you how to proceed with it every day: first listen to the recording, then read a page of the target text while listening again, then work with the text and its translation to figure out new words and expressions. And most importantly - make sure you process those new expressions into your preferred vocabulary learning method!
- 4I motivate, encourage and help overcome obstacles
You start learning a language enthusiastically, but then you find irregular verbs, you see how many words you still don’t know and all native speakers speak so fast! Having learnt 9 languages by myself, I can help people overcome obstacles at any stage of learning any language by fixing their methods, system or suggesting different resources.
I believe Language Mentoring® is my mission. I want to help people reveal the beauty of language self-study and of working up to the stunning results experienced by polyglots (people who speak several languages fluently). I am convinced that everybody can do it if they just know how. It isn’t a matter of talent. The only thing is to really want it.
Fighting the deep-rooted language-learning system
The way languages are generally taught in most countries around the world is simply not effective. After decades of learning languages in schools and language courses in the same way, we have been conditioned into thinking that language learning means:
How languages are learnt in the internet era
The above are all rather old-fashioned ideas about how languages are learnt best. They come from the era before the internet when the only resource for language learners was a teacher and a textbook with recordings.
Today in a world with millions of Youtube videos, websites streaming TV shows, blogs with simplified texts in any language, interactive online dictionaries and numerous apps to help with any language, it is a great pity to stick to the old way which is still so spread in the school system and most language schools.
The only thing which you need to do to learn a language much more easily in this internet world is:
- Find resources which will be enjoyable for you
- Use those resources applying effective methods
- Create a system in your learning
- Follow that system long enough to achieve fluency
That’s it. It’s really rather simple. As long as you follow these four principles, you can learn languages in thousands of different ways, using thousands of different resources, making sure your learning journey is always fun.
And the best thing is – most of these resources are available for free or at a really low price! Forget paying thousands of dollars for your language education. All you need is a decision to learn that language, and willingness to look for the best combination of methods for yourself.
How it all started
The great imbalance: self-study versus a teacher
After 17 years of self-studying 7 languages and 10 years of teaching English and German, I realized that there is a great imbalance between these two activities, and especially their results:
On one hand, I am able to learn one language after another until I speak them fluently all by myself, but on the other hand, I spend years with students who are not even close to achieving similar results. They attend language courses for years but are not capable of fluent speech. They invest a great deal of energy, time and money into language learning, but most of them do not achieve their goals.
I must be a bad English teacher then!
I was asking myself, why is it so? Am I a bad teacher? Why am I not able to teach someone a language in a year or two like I taught myself Spanish, Polish and French? Why can’t my students speak a foreign language without being under constant stress? Why don’t they understand movies in English? Why can’t they recall even basic vocabulary when talking? They have already been learning English for as long as five years!
At first, I thought that my advantage was a talent for languages that my students did not possess. Everyone was telling me how talented I was, and I believed them.
Everything changed at the Polyglot Gathering
I believed that I had that talent until I met 300 other polyglots at the Polyglot Gathering in Berlin in 2015. Was it possible that they all had such a tremendous talent for languages? Could it have been that all the elite brains of the world possessing a special gene that others lack met up in Berlin? And could I really have belonged to this group of unique people? This explanation didn’t seem right at all.
I couldn’t resist. I talked to dozens of polyglots at the Gathering and I asked all of them how they learn languages. I inquired about many details and after the first few days, I began to understand…
What do all polyglots have in common?
I found out that most polyglots learn quite differently to how we do at schools and in most language courses. And by “differently” I don’t mean that they just use different books (although that’s true as well). The thing is, they approach learning differently at its very heart.
First of all, they don’t expect anyone to teach them a language. They learn by themselves.
Polyglots who study languages exclusively at courses are extremely hard to find. A typical polyglot has mastered their XY languages by self-study. They searched for language learning options, tried various things, experimented, and if they were accompanied by a teacher or a language course on their way, they always adjusted the whole learning process to match their own needs.
I also noticed that each polyglot learns differently. Among the 300 polyglots I didn’t meet two whose methods were identical. Each of them learns languages in their own way, and the methods usually even vary from language to language.
Polyglots speak about languages with great enthusiasm, which I realized is because they love the methods they use. They don’t see language learning as the tedious classes we all know from school. Quite the opposite. Language learning is their greatest passion and they love to work with texts and recordings and talk to native speakers. It’s because they choose the individual methods themselves.
When it comes to language learning, the greatest difference between polyglots and most other people is that polyglots find language learning very pleasant, as they have found their own way that they enjoy.
Another thing that I noticed all polyglots have in common is that they devote much more time and energy to learning than most people. They learn a bit every day and in the long-term, they read and write a huge amount of texts, listen to a huge amount of recordings and speak for dozens of hours, all in a foreign language. No wonder they achieve incredible results in a couple of months and master one language after another!
I also observed that polyglots don’t learn languages just like that in fits and starts. They know exactly why they do whatever they do, and how to achieve the desired results. They know that if they want to be able to speak a language, nothing in the world can help them more than many hours of speaking to native speakers of the respective language. They know that if they want to master grammar and avoid making mistakes, they have to do many exercises. They know that if they want a very good pronunciation, they will have to practice for a long time. Their learning is usually based on a plan that allows them to learn a language within a couple of months.
So I am not a bad teacher after all!
When I realized all these differences between polyglots and most people learning a language, it hit me. This is it! This is the reason why I cannot give my students in classes what I experience with my own language learning. This is why people attend courses, change schools and teachers without any visible results even after years! It’s because I cannot in fact teach them languages. I believe you can only learn languages well if you:
learn in a fun way
spend a lot of time with the language
use efficient methods
And so the four basic pillars of my language learning philosophy came into existence.
Everyone can assemble their own method for language learning consisting of any possible combination of ways as illustrated by the individual pieces of the jigsaw puzzle in the picture. If they follow these four principles, success in learning languages is guaranteed.
A revolutionary discovery in language learning
This discovery was a breakthrough for me. I felt that it explained everything.
It’s because people also have to learn languages at home, not only in classes! Otherwise, it simply doesn’t work. A teacher can be of great help, but most of the work has to be done by the student and the teacher usually doesn’t have to be present all the time. The student him/herself has to spend hours with the language writing, reading, listening or speaking. The student him/herself has to do a massive amount of grammar exercises in order to understand and use it properly. Most importantly, it’s nowhere near enough to work with the language only once or twice a week, or the advances will only be small and short-term. The student may even get stuck and spend years with such learning.
Suddenly, I observed it with all my acquaintances. I asked people how they learned English so well (even though they might have struggled with German for years), and they would say they had gotten it from Cartoon Network that they devoured as kids; or from reading detective novels only available in English; or that their flat-mate was a foreigner with whom they could only speak English. There were always hidden hours and hours of very frequent contact with the language that they somehow enjoyed. They were personally interested in the activities that they did, be it their favorite TV shows, computer games, or reading their most beloved books. The only thing that remained uncovered was a conscious system. However, if they thoroughly enjoyed the activities and couldn’t put them down (e.g. the TV show), the learning system itself was not so necessary.
The key to language learning is simple: find something you truly enjoy and do it intensively in the language you are learning. It can be TV shows, podcasts, books, audiobooks, talking to friends, etc.
To me, realizing the truth about the four pillars was a turning point. The question still remained, however, what could I do about it? How could I help people learn languages even if they’re not language enthusiasts who have 5 hours of free time a day, and it is not really their greatest passion to become engrossed in grammar and study its peculiarities?
It was clear: I didn’t want to teach people using traditional methods anymore.
So I came up with the idea of language mentoring® instead.